Female. A woman has been equipped by God with beauty and soul is a truth, which is both real and virtual, we can only understand with love, and we can only touch by virtue of (Kahlil Gibran, Broken Wings).
Kahlil Gibran pieces of writing on the show, women are creatures of God who has the alluring charm and full of mystery to the opposite sex. The beauty of the body and the spiritual part that is able to captivate and seduce men of faith. So do not be surprised if the men would be willing to sacrifice anything to be able to enjoy and has a beautiful body of a woman. The course of history shows, the murders committed by human beings on the earth the first time, the murder of Abel by Cain, occurs as a result of female conquest. In addition, the story of prophets in the Bible explains that Adam was expelled by the Lord of Heaven is also caused by the woman (Eve) who urged him to approach and eat the forbidden fruit (Khuldi).
In the days of Pharaoh, Moses who was then still a baby should be killed because they are descendants of the Israelites but not be killed even being adopted by him because of demand from the permaysuri. In the days of Cleopatra, Julius Caesar is not willing to continue its expansion in Egypt due to a fall in the arms of the Egyptian queen known for her beauty. Furthermore, the president of the United States John F Kennedi be defeated and fell into the arms of the artist Marlyn Monroe, and the last when President Bill Clinton's position is threatened because of an affair with Monica Lewinsky.
Not all women just become objects in the life of the world, among them there are a few names that became pep for those who love him, just as Eva Duarte who later better known as Eva Peron is the man behind the screen success of Juan Peron in building the country, although it is also part of his ambition to become famous in Argentina and it reached up to his name is remembered by the citizens of Argentina more than the husband is actually the number one in the country. Reality shows from the past until now men will always strive to be able to gain the sympathy of women without thinking of impact and consequences will bear.
Utilization of Women
Looking at the long history of relations between men with women, do not be surprised if many people then "exploit" the beauty of the women have to achieve an obsession, whether wealth, fame or position. In antiquity, to be used by the district headman, then he should routinely offer a beautiful woman to the district to serve as concubines or just satisfying lust momentarily and then released back or awarded again to others. As a result, many parents, especially from the lower classes, who feel happy when mempuanyai beautiful daughter and beautiful, because beauty can be its capital to improve living standards and economic status of families.
In today's modern world, the position of women is not much different from before, they still serve as a "decoration" profit puller. When we look at women's apparel is a growing mode at this time, from day to day more strictly adhered at the body and the more minimal and the freer show the beauty of the wearer's body, even clothing for the fashion office uniforms were made as sexy and as little as possible so they can show a part- part of the attraction for the opposite sex, although it often makes them uncomfortable but they can not do much because they have to obey what has been the policy of the company or office.
But not all women who take advantage of the beauty of her body due to a sense of "forced" or other parties utilized, among them there are just as Cleopatra and Eva Peron that utilizes the beauty and the beauty of her body in order to achieve the ideals and obsessions in order to be famous and successful in a career. Not least among them, especially the newcomers entertainment world, who deliberately take advantage kesintalan and beauty of the body for the pile of money and fame, not even the few who are ready to give "better service" from its goal of becoming a famous person can be reached. So do not be surprised if all our media, especially print and electronic media are filled with beautiful view of a woman scantily clad or very tight, even our television media are now filled with impressions that show a "wobble" bad ass ladies are able to capture the imagination of men who watch it.
These facts clearly show the weakness of women had become the object of men in fulfilling his ambition. But on the other hand, this time just a lot of women who take advantage of the weakness of men are always tempted by something beautiful that has a woman to reach the summit of hope.
Respect for Women's equality rights activists are always yelling, "do not exploit women in order to achieve business advantage" or give equal portions between women and men. "Jargon-jargon is always echoed in the various opportunities that no other aims in order to obtain the position of women The same with men. Respect for a woman actually have to be disclosed by the women themselves in honoring him. They should be able to honor him through the way he acts and behaves in an attempt to reach the goals and ideals.
They should be able to maintain a way of life according to the norm even though the competition to go there very tight. Because how mungin a woman will gain the respect of men if he himself does not respect and appreciate themselves, as in dress in public many of them scantily clad and sexy that her curves are beautiful, sexy and plump clearly visible on the grounds keep abreast of fashion. Such habits will definitely invite him fun to tease him even harassed either by hand or poke whistling even greeting words are indecent.
If they are able to behave and look are compatible with the prevailing norms, inshaAllah harassment and sexual violence that currently many concerns affecting women can be avoided, because basically a lot of crime and sexual harassment occurs as a result of the victim's own appearance. Besides the self-esteem by women are expected position of women which is always the object in the various activities of men and the business world is inevitable and appropriate awards can be accepted by women according to achievement instead of pity or because of the sacrifice of self-esteem.
